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 Never Talk to Strangers (1995)
IMDB rating: 4.80
Plot: Sarah Taylor, a police psychologist, meets a mysterious and seductive young man, Tony Ramirez, and falls in love with him. As a cause of this relationship she changes her personality when she begins to receive anonymous telefon calls.
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Directors: Hall Peter
Actors: Banderas Antonio,Miller Dennis,Cariou Len,Stanton Harry Dean,Lipinski Eugene,Starr Beau,Jarrett Phillip,Kelleher Tim,Gannascoli Joseph R.,Dreger Reg,Thriller,
So desperate, what is the solution for my problem?
Well i have posted this before, but haven’t got any valid feed backs, so please help! Just to recap: I used to know this guy who is now my husband, we were friends for 2 years, we shared nothing but friendship, my dad knew about this and asked to meet him although i assured him that nothing beyond friendship is going on, but he refused to listen or understand, and he pushed me into marrying him, i was too scared of what would my dad do if i don’t marry him, since he is so protective and doesn’t understand that ppl can make friendships with other genders. anyway i was scared that he would let me quit work and would forbid me from going out and having a normal life, so i went with the flow and just engaged him, he told me during our 2 years engagement that he has been with someone for six years, he used to love his GF but couldn’t marry due to some religious issues, but he mentioned that it was over 2 years ago. During our engagement he didn’t approach me many times for sex, or even normal hugs and kisses and his excuse was that he is a shy guy, and when few things used to happen between us i have never felt him close to me, and that he is approaching me because he misses me (NO Feelings) until one day he asked me to pass by for a coffee at his place, and when i entered he was like, you look gorgeous today baby, and he approached me for sex, i couldn’t believe my eyes, and while we were kissing i was thinking to myself and saying: WoW its the first time i feel that he is totally with me, never had the chance to finish my thought until he called me with her name. i couldn’t forgive him, but knowing the fact that i can’t leave him i had to show that i did. we moved on and got married nothing had ever changed he is still not approaching me for sex, and i knew that he was muster bating all the time while i am sleeping, I faced him many times and told him that i know what he’s doing, but he always deny that and pretends that i am hurting him. then later another 2 stories appeared he used to tell me that he had this friend who used to work with him long time ago, he described her as a cheap lady that has offered herself to him many times, i said then, why do u still talk to someone like this while you are married he said, please don’t describe her as someone cheap, although I have never met her and he was the one who told me about her, and he said that they are friends and will always keep talking to her and that he doesn’t want me to meet her, and when i asked him for the reason he said it’s non of your business! he kept talking to her hurting my feelings until she dumped him, she hanged up the line when i answered the phone and he believed her over me, so i am the bad girl here! then he met another girl at his work and he started to be late, used to go out and see her, and i used always to figure out because I understood him so much and i knew when he is doing something wrong, then he stopped talking to her also when she dumped him for a richer man. I was dying from the inside didn’t know what can i do, i thought of telling my father but i was scared and still scared until this moment, so i asked him for a divorce, all he said was, do u have someone else in your life? i was totally shocked from his question, he continued.. if there is someone I will not stand in your way, i will leave, i said no of course i don’t have, but I am tired from the way you are treating me, no respect no love nothing at all.. he promised to work on himself and our marriage, and he did for a period, then unexpectedly I got pregnant and it was by mistake, he was so nice during my pregnancy but he has never approached me for sex as he claims that he is scared, so i said maybe he is, so i will not push it, and after delivering the baby i thought it would be different, and it was different he changed again, we live as strangers in the same house, he approaches me for sex when he needs to get empty no feelings at all, he even can’t look me in the eye at all. I am so tired and lost I am afraid if i tell me dad so i can get a divorce i will ruin the baby’s life and my life as well, and i am much more scared to stay… you might ask why would he marry me in the first place, well i am 10 years younger than him, much more prettier, make an excellent income to compare with girls same age of mine, I am smart can run the house and raise kids, and so on..
dear E&L: for God sake i was 18 when i met him, and 21 when i got married of course i made mistakes because i wasn’t mature enough. and for being dishonest, i was not honest with my husband, but tried to be honest with my dad who has never gave me chance to talk or gave him chance to listen.
I’ve read through all your questions, and was about to answer your most recent one when it got deleted, I think because people said it wasn’t coherent.
I, on the other hand, know exactly what yu’re talking about - and you really do need to get a divorce and MOVE ON.
This man is a cheat, a liar, and he goads you and makes you jealous on purpose, then tries to make out he’s telling you now because he didn’t want to lose you before.
you aren’t happy, and these problems have been going on for so long that they aren’t resolvable.
It makes me angry to read all your posts and think that you are still living like this - you are NOT alone, find out where you can get free legal advice and help, and remember that this is YOUR life, not anyone elses.
You seem to know you are smart, pretty, etc, and you don’t live in victorian times, so get a divorce, and show him exactly what he’s been missing all these years.
He is a pathological liar and a nasty one at that - why should you live in a amarriage where you are underappreciated and mocked?!
18 is too young to know what you were doing, and you have been manipulated, but you aren’t 18 anymore, you are a gorwn intelligent woman who knows what is and isn’t right.
Reading just one of your posts was bad enough, to see the extent of your problems was mind boggling. Go toy our doctor and ask to see a counsellor, alone, talk through your marriage, and try to get a coherent argument towards him so that you can really let rip at him, but in a calm manner.
It sounds to me like he might already be pushing you away on purpose, and trying to hurt you to make you leave him.
Well do it, and find someone who appreciates you, or just be alone, because I’ve found that feeling lonely now and then is a hell of a lot better than feeling the way you are right now, all day every day.
You deserve better, please PLEASE don’t let this continue any longer -
you’re just wasting your time and your life!
graceomally99 | Feb 01, 2010
oh wow get a divorce cause if you two stay together youre gonna ruin the baby’s life like come on seriously, and my mom is divorced and i dont know my dad but im not angry at her im proud of her;)
carlmcbob | Jan 31, 2010
You seem to try to put fault on your husband and father for being in the position you are now, but how about yourself. YOU were not honest with your father and started and your whole friendship was just that . . . but you would not stand up to your father and tell him so. You have lived a lie since that moment and it seems you wanted HIM to be the one to leave you so you would never have to be the one who asked for the divorce. Sorry, but this has been your mistake from the beginning and it is hard to clean up dishonesty unless you sit everyone down and be honest with both your dad and husband and try to look for a solution. At that time you were worried about your father letting you live a ‘normal life’ . . . ask yourself, has it been?
E&L | Jan 31, 2010
Ask yourself, how is this farce of a marriage affecting my child. you say he isnt approaching you for sex coz "hes a shy guy"? BULL !!!! hes had 2 other women dump him since you have been married, for cryin out loud, and they most likely dumped him coz they found out hes married. you say you have posted this question b4 but didnt get, what? "valid feedback" ??? i think you probably just didnt get the answer you were looking for. grab your baby and dump this loser. your child will grow up much happier if you are happy too. and dont worry about what your dad will do, hes your dad for cryin out loud, he may be mad at you for a while, but he will get over it.
buzytree | Jan 31, 2010
I agree very strongly with both the first and second answers.
You have to step into your power now and follow your heart, you know what you have to do.
ribby | Jan 31, 2010
Girl,
I think this man has a lot of issues.I think you two you should go to marriage counseling.
But let me tell you something else. I think you should go to counseling too. You have to grab your own life and not be afraid of what your father thinks or does. Your life is yours and you must learn to take decisions by yourself. It’s like you let others guide you: first your father, then your husband, now your baby. Take a firm stand, do it for your baby, Don’t you think he deserves to have a mother who is happy and mature?
I know it’s hard to face life, life is very hard, but it will be harder if you keep letting others managing yours.
If you are young, pretty, and doing good money, it shouldn’t be that difficult for you to begin again.
I don’t want to sound negative,but I think that you should leave your partner, he’s immature, is hurting you and will doin’ so. Is that what u want for the rest of your life? Is that what you want your baby see? I know divorce is hard, but you guys made the mistake of getting married when you didn’t know each other well, now you know him, he’s nuts and is drivin’ you nuts.
I think you can begin a new life. Go see a good therapist, ask for help in your church, and talk to good friends.
Good luck!
livingthedream | Jan 31, 2010
girl im seing all your Qs come on im sorry for giving you other advice
divorce that shit!
you deserve better i hope i can get a job like yours so i cant depend on no one
girl you have me i dont know you but im here for you whatever you need!
you deserve more lets get you more!
and trust me if your not happy with him you are going to be with out him so wake up
its seem like you are just a friend for him.. and he is with you because he is afraid to be alone..
Mari ana E. | Feb 01, 2010