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 Prayers for Bobby (2009)
IMDB rating: 8.40
Plot: In “Prayers for Bobby,” Mary Griffith is a devout Christian who raises her children with the conservative teachings of the Presbyterian Church. However, when her son Bobby confides to his older brother he may be gay, life changes for the entire family after Mary learns about his secret. While Bobby’s father and siblings slowly come to terms with his homosexuality, Mary believes God can cure him of what she considers his ’sin’ and persuades Bobby to pray harder and seek solace in church activities in hopes of changing him. Desperate for his mother’s approval, Bobby does what is asked of him, but through it all, the church’s apparent disapproval of homosexuality causes him to grow increasingly withdrawn and depressed. Guilty over the pain he is causing Mary, Bobby moves away, yet hopes that some day his mother will accept him. His subsequent depression and self-loathing intensifies as he blames himself for not being the ‘perfect’ son and is driven to suicide. Faced with their tragedy, Mary begins to question her faith when she receives no answers from her pastor concerning her devastating loss. Through her long and emotional journey, Mary slowly reaches out to the gay community and discovers unexpected support from a very unlikely source. The film is based on the 1995 Leroy Aarons book of the same name.
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Directors: Mulcahy Russell
Actors: Czerny Henry,Kelley Ryan,Butler Dan,Nichols Austin,Bailey Scott,Bardha Ele,Brown David G.B.,Budziszewski Dennis,Bufalini Marty,Biography,Drama,
What is the best form of gay rights activism?
There have been so many ways to fight for LGBT rights. The equality march on Washington, for one. Colleges have been holding kiss-ins in which gay couples gather and celebrate a public kiss with their significant other. Movies like Milk and Prayers for Bobby and Brokeback Mountain have furthered LGBT causes. And of course, there are flyers, parades, gay days at amusement parks, and many other events that display and support the gay community.
Which one is the best and most effective do you think?
All of these things together have furthered the LGBT cause. Many people were offended when Barney Frank told those who gathered in DC for the national equality march that they would only be putting "pressure on the grass" but he was partially true. We need to use our system of government to also further our cause. Currently, there is a bill to overturn the "don’t ask, don’t tell" policy, which would be a milestone in gay rights. It needs only 36 more co-sponsors for it to be eligible for a vote in the House. Many Representatives like Nancy Pelosi would certainly co-sponsor the bill if only they had the pressure from our community to do so. Find out if your representative has co-sponsored the bill, if not, meet with them and request them to do so. If your representative has, see if a neighboring district has co-sponsored and energize the gay community in that district to lobby their representative. And this is the same with a bill overturning DOMA and will be true as our cause continues. Marches and movies are fun, and they help, but we also need to actually do work that may not be so fun to really make an impact. Go to sldn.org to find out if your rep. has co-sponsored the bill that will overturn discrimination in the military.
| Oct 28, 2009
be true one self and others
Frances Carodine | Oct 28, 2009
Be out, be yourself and get to know lots of people.
..That way, they’ll realize that you are an individual with good and bad qualities, not just a label or a sexual orientation.
It’s much easier to vilify something one does not understand!
If you’re out, maybe next time someone asks one of your friends about gay marriage, instead of thinking: "Wow, homosexuality is wrong and sinful!", he or she will think: "Oh, my friend Peter is gay, and he’s still an awesome person. I want him to be happy! So maybe it *should* be legal..?"